Regarding the Pairing Event:
To get things out of the way, I want to let you guys know that I’ve had a really stressful week with some really heavy personal things going on and I’m exhausted and really tired so if I start to offend anyone I’m really sorry.
First we want to thank everyone who has done and started to plan your plot with your partner! We really hope you guys are having fun with this because that’s the whole point of the event!
Me and Ev have always been super easy and chill about almost everything when it comes to activity and other things regarding this RP, we feel like we’ve been fair and we don’t do things last minute. We plan everything out to the last detail because we want to give everyone time to plan things. We feel like we always have an open door policy and you guys can tell us anything.
But I can’t really express how disappointed I’ve been with some players who knew about this event weeks prior to us posting it. We told you guys it would be a pairing event and that you would be responsible for plotting things out with your partner. We told you that you would have a week to complete it. So when we get messages in our inbox THE WEEK OF telling us you won’t be here and can’t do the event, or you want to drop a character, or go on hiatus, or DON’T EVEN BOTHER LETTING US KNOW THAT YOU CAN’T DO THE EVENT for whatever damn reason. That’s really fucking disappointing and to be honest, it’s extremely inconsiderate. You guys may not understand or know how much time it took for us to plan out the pairs but believe me when I say that shit is not fucking easy.
And I want to clarify that it’s not the fact that you guys won’t be here, or that you guys need a hiatus or want to drop a character that is what’s upsetting us the most, it’s the fact that we gave you notice in advance that there would be a mandatory event so that you could come to us and let us know if you wouldn’t be able to make it or participate in it but you guys didn’t have the damn courtesy to let us know before we made the pairs and posted the event. Not only are you letting US down after all the time we put into this but you’re letting your PARTNER down who is trying to have fun with the event too.
We understand more than anything that shit happens and things come up. But if you already had something planned and you knew you were going to be out of town or busy with something personal you should have let us know in advance. It’s common courtesy guys. Thank you, if you’ve contacted us and let us know about not being able to do the event. But we really wished you could have told us sooner and not so last minute. And for the people who don’t even bother to let us know, that’s really not okay. I don’t know how to end this post but to really apologize that you guys had to waste your time reading this long ass letter but seriously both me and Ev are really upset about this.
Know that this is not a personal attack but just in general how we are feeling. We always keep things open with you guys and none of this is passive aggressive shit because believe me, I don’t have a problem calling anyone out on anything. I don’t like to be that b**** so please don’t make me into one.
We love you all, we really do.